exande@maila.wm.edu
It was kind of funny. I was going to transfer out in the spring of my junior year. I had already been accepted into Virginia Commonwealth University's school of mass communications. I was ready to leave. W & M just wasn't what I wanted anymore. Then I met a group of people who changed my life, possibly forever. I'm so grateful for those friends that I found, because if it weren't for them, I wouldn't be here today. Literally. I never would have met DJDave if it hadn't been for them. That's a long story in itself, but I won't go into that now.
So I would like to take the time here to thank each of them individually. First of all there's Greg. I met him the fall of my junior year, and we gradually became friends. Actually, the first time I ever met him, he was drunk at The Flat Hat (student paper), and one of the first questions he ever asked me was, "Am I being loud?" Of course, he was. But he's been my friend for a while, and he's helped me through some rough times. Unfortunately, I've had to repay that debt recently. Unfortunate because I don't like to see him unhappy. But if it weren't for him, I wouldn't be in Beta sorority, and I wouldn't have that group of friends as well. So, thanks Greg.
Then there's Brian Turner. He's never been mentioned here. He's also a good friend. He was my "roommate" for a while, when I moved in with the boyz. If it weren't for him, I never would have been brought into the circle. We had a golf class together that fall, and I also saw him at the newspaper. He's always been a good buddy, and I enjoyed sharing the room with him. He can always make me laugh (or not) with one of his bad jokes. I'm glad we've stayed friends.
Bernard...what can I say about him? I'm sorry we haven't kept in touch as much. We spent lots of time together that junior year. Our study/chat sessions in the back bedroom helped keep me going. I'm also glad we got to see Bruce Hornsby live in concert on my 21st birthday. I can't imagine a better way to spend and evening. It was truly amazing. And yes, I was completely sober. I really did enjoy our friendship a lot. He also helped me through some rough times that spring. I'm sorry we drifted apart. But things happen. I still see him, even though he is in law school. He's a fun guy.
Mike Peters. The fourth roommate. What a crazy guy! He was my drinking buddy. I could always count on him to go out with me, no matter what. But when he let Mike-in-a-Cage out, things got kinda crazy. I'll never forget the night he threw a railroad spike (yes, THE Spike) through a wall. Literally, through the wall. But he's typically a lot of fun. I'm glad we became friends.
Pete Maricostas, what an ass :) You know I love ya, Pete. First time I meet him, he says to his friends, "Do you think she'd mind if I pulled her ponytail?" Right off the bat, I knew he was going to annoy me. But of course, that is in the best possible way. We've had our ups and downs, but generally, I do appreciate him. He gives me a different view on life. Different is not always good, but at least it's honest.
Dana...Well, I can't say much about Dana, other than the fact that I'd probably be dead without her. She wasn't in the original circle, but I managed to bring her in. I even found her a guy! I'm glad I met her, and I'm glad we've been friends.
And, last but not least, there's Alex. I met him as a sidebar to the original crowd, and he intrigued me. We gradually became friends over the two-year period, getting to know each other better and better. Then finally we realized, after all our searchings for someone, that the somebody we were looking for was right in front of. Luckily, it (kinda) happened around the same time. What would I do without him? He's amazing. He's the almost-perfect boyfriend. Almost, because nobody's perfect. I miss him now, because I am not moving till next weekend. Yikes. But I want to thank him for everything he's done, and let him know that yes, I do appreciate you, more than you'll ever know.
Well, that's it. Sorry to get so personal. But sometimes it must be done. I'm going to finish up my Xmas shopping today. Lots of fun. I've already been shopping this morning, and I bought 2 suits, for a total of $130. One of them cost $13.99. I'm not joking. My grandmother bought them for me! So now I'll look really nice when I go job hunting up north. I've already got a few leads, I just need to send out the old resume. I'm so glad I made this decision. I've been so upset wondering where the money will come from. Now I don't have to worry. My parents have said they'll help me out some, so that's a great relief. Now I just have to tell those people that I'm not taking their job. Ick.
Well, I'm off to shop till I drop. Have a great holiday everyone! Spend some time with your families, and let them know you appreciate them! I love you all! Especially my friends...
until next time
erica
exande@maila.wm.edu
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